The guide
Period cramps are your uterus, which is a muscle, squeezing to push out its lining, and they are usually a normal part of having periods. Heat, gentle movement and pain relief medicine started early all help, and cramps that stop you from doing your usual things are a reason to see a doctor, not something to push through.
Below this guide are the questions about cramps that readers have asked Soso, each with its answer.
Why cramps happen
Every period, chemicals called prostaglandins make the muscle of your uterus contract so it can shed its lining, which leaves your body as period blood. Strong contractions briefly cut down the blood flow to the muscle itself, and that is what hurts. Prostaglandins also turn up pain signals in general, which is why a crampy day can make everything feel more sore.
The pain is usually low in your belly, and for some people it spreads to the lower back or thighs. Prostaglandins peak around the start of bleeding and the first two to three days, so that is when cramps are usually worst. Not sure whether it is cramps or an ordinary stomachache? This guide to telling them apart helps.
How common cramps are, and when they start
Studies of teenagers have found period pain in anywhere from 16% to 93%, depending on who was asked and how. Severe pain is much less common, at 2% to 29%. So most teens do not have severe period pain, and if yours is severe, you are not imagining it.
Cramps often skip the very first periods. In the first year or two, most cycles do not release an egg, and the usual kind of period pain begins on average six to 12 months after a first period, when cycles that do release one get going. After that it tends to come back every cycle. Pain that starts much later is a different story, covered in the signs at the end.
Heat: simple, and it holds up
A heating pad or a hot water bottle on your lower belly is the easiest thing to try first. In a review of six randomised trials, the three that compared a heating pad with pain relief medicine found heat did at least as well, and better in some analyses. The catch is that these were few trials with small numbers of people. Wrap a hot water bottle in a towel so it feels warm, not hot, on your skin.
Moving helps, in two different ways
On a crampy day, light movement like stretching or a walk can help, even when curling up in bed feels like the only option.
Regular exercise is prevention, not rescue. In one review, the amount linked to less period pain was more than three sessions a week, longer than 30 minutes each, adding up to at least 90 minutes a week, kept up for at least 8 weeks. A separate review ranked relaxation exercise best at both 4 and 8 weeks, and every kind it studied reduced pain by 8 weeks. So pick whatever you will actually keep doing. Our guide to what helps when cramps hurt has more ideas.
Pain relief medicine works best early
Pain relief medicine works best when it is started one to two days before bleeding begins and continued through the first two to three days. That window follows the prostaglandin peak, so starting early gets ahead of the pain instead of chasing it.
An adult decides which medicine you take and how much, based on your age and weight, so ask a parent or another adult who looks after you rather than taking something on your own. Magnesium may help with period pain too, but the studies behind it are limited, and at this age food sources come before supplements, which are an adult's call as well.
When cramps are a reason to tell an adult
Cramps themselves are normal. These are not, and each one is worth telling a parent or another adult you trust so you can see a doctor:
- Pain that is much worse than usual, or that has not eased after the pain relief an adult gave you. Tell an adult straight away, not at the end of the day.
- Pain that is severe, or that keeps you from school, sport or friends. Among people with period pain, one third to one half miss school or work at least once per cycle, so you would not be the only one, but being stopped by pain is a reason to get help, not a test you are failing.
- Pain that starts much later than that usual six-to-12-month window, pelvic pain that keeps getting worse, or pain that comes with unusual bleeding or discharge.
- Very heavy bleeding: needing to change your pad every 1 to 2 hours, a period that lasts more than 7 days, clots bigger than about 2.5 cm, bleeding through to your clothes or bedding, or often feeling tired or short of breath. This counts from your very first period.
For more on what is and is not normal, see cramps, clots and other period symptoms.
Notes make that conversation easier, and they show you when to start pain relief next time, which is hard to guess while periods are still irregular. The Soso app has a daily log for cramps and flow if you want one place to keep them. The checked facts this guide relies on are listed below, each linked to its card on our medical sources.
Frequently asked questions
Can I get cramps before my first period?
Some people notice cramping in the days just before a first period, along with bloating, tender breasts, spots, mood swings or tiredness. That is a few days, not months of practice cramps, and it cannot tell you when your period will come. If tummy pain comes back every month and there is still no period, especially when your body has already changed a lot with puberty, tell an adult so a doctor can check.
Why do cramps come with an upset stomach or loose poop?
Progesterone slows digestion in the second half of your cycle, and then the same prostaglandins that make your uterus contract speed your gut up around your period. That is why bloating often turns into looser stools on day one. In one study of healthy women, 28% had diarrhoea during their period, so you are far from the only one.
Will pain relief medicine stop working if I take it every month?
We found no good evidence that it does, but we did not find a study that properly tested it either, so we cannot promise that it never happens. If it seems to help less than it used to, tell the adult who gives it to you, because that is useful for them and for a doctor to know.
Can I do sport or PE when I have cramps?
If you feel up to it, yes. Having your period does not by itself stop you doing normal things, and gentle movement is one of the things that helps cramps. If the pain often stops you from joining in, that is the signal to tell an adult, not a reason to try harder.
I am a parent. How can I help with my daughter's cramps?
Take the pain seriously and start with heat and gentle movement. If you use pain relief, you choose the medicine and the amount for her age and weight, and it works best started one to two days before bleeding and continued through the first two to three days. If cramps keep her home from school or stop her usual activities, book a doctor's appointment.
Where these facts come from
- Why cramps happen at all
- How common period pain is in adolescents
- Why the first cycles are so irregular
- When period pain usually starts
- Heat compared with pain medication
- Doing normal things on your period
- The exercise dose that was actually studied
- Which kinds of exercise helped most
- When pain relief works best
- Magnesium for period symptoms
- Missing school because of period pain
- Heavy bleeding: signs to tell an adult about
- How long after breast growth a first period comes
- Monthly tummy pain with no period yet
- Why bloating turns into loose stools
- Tummy symptoms around a period
- Whether pain relief stops working over time
Each fact shows the study or medical guideline behind it, and what it does not prove. All our medical sources
On the blog
- Soso Answers: Pink Pee, Menstrual Discs and Period Spots (October 21 to 28)
- Soso Answers: Secrets Getting Out, Body Hair and Hungry Days (August 28 to September 3)
- Soso Answers: Period Products, Missing Cramps and New Expectations (August 22 to 28)
- Period cramps or stomachache? How to tell the difference and help during early adolescence
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