I feel like I can’t pee on my period because everyone wants to know if I’m okay because no one went to pee or changed my pad (this is my 2nd day of my 1st period) and where everyone is sitting is the bathroom.

Okay, so it sounds like you're feeling a little awkward about having to go to the bathroom and change your pad, especially since it's your first period and everyone is sitting near the bathroom. That's totally normal to feel! A lot of people feel a bit self-conscious when they first start their period, especially in public or with friends around.

Here’s the thing: everyone has to pee, and if they've had their period, they know you have to change your pad. It's just a normal body thing, even if it feels like a big deal right now. Your first few periods are all about figuring out what works for you and getting comfortable with it.

What to do about it

• Just go! Honestly, most people probably aren't even paying attention. If you need to go, you need to go. Waiting too long to pee isn't good for your body.
• Be sneaky (if you want to): You can carry your pad in your pocket or tuck it up your sleeve when you go to the bathroom. That way, nobody sees what you're bringing in. But seriously, it's okay if someone sees it too.
• Use a distraction: You can pretend to check your phone or tie your shoe on the way to the bathroom. Just make it look like you're doing something else if you don't want to make a thing out of it.

It gets way easier, I promise! The more you just do your thing, the less you'll even think about it. And hey, the Soso app can help you keep track of when you need to change your pad so you don't have to guess or be surprised.