Should I tell my best friend and my boyfriend that I am 11 years old?

Look, you don't have to tell anyone anything if you don't want to! That decision is entirely yours, and it's super normal to have those more intimate things that we prefer to keep to ourselves or share only with those we trust a lot.

Telling your best friend

If your best friend is a true friend, she will probably support you and might even have gone through something similar or be about to go through it. Talking to her can be good for you to help each other and feel less alone. But, again, only if you feel comfortable and confident that she will keep your secret and understand you, you know?

Telling your boyfriend

With your boyfriend, it's a bit different. If you are close and feel good with each other, maybe he will understand. But, since you are 11 years old, it's important to remember that not everyone your age (especially boys) understands much about these things of menstrual cycles and puberty. He might not know what to say or how to react, and that's ok! The important thing is that you feel safe and not pressured to reveal something you don't want to.

Who is important to know?

I think the most important thing is to have a trusted adult who knows and can help you if you need anything, like a father, a mother, an aunt, or a grandmother. They can give you advice and help you with menstrual products or any questions that arise. You can even check out Sosô's blog for more ideas on how to talk about these subjects, if you want.