But when I go to ballet I'm the fattest person there and people don't like me for it

Ugh, that is literally the worst feeling ever and I totally get it. Here's the thing though: your body is constantly changing right now, and that's okay.

Your body is changing

Seriously, your body is doing SO much right now. It's growing, getting ready for your period, and changing all over the place. Everyone goes through puberty differently, and some people get taller, some fill out more, and it's all part of becoming YOU. It's super normal for your body to look different from other people's, especially during these years.

Dealing with how you feel

It's totally valid to feel bummed or self-conscious, but try to remember that your body is strong and amazing for all it does, especially in ballet. Focus on how it feels to dance and what your body can do, not just how it looks. And seriously, anyone who "dislikes" someone because of their body shape is just being mean, and that says way more about them than it does about you. Like, who even cares? You're there to dance, and that's awesome.

What to do

If someone is actually saying mean stuff or making you feel bad, it's a good idea to talk to a trusted grown-up about it. That could be a parent, a teacher, or even your ballet instructor. Sometimes just talking about it helps a lot. And honestly, moving your body feels good. Ballet is good for you and good for how you feel during your cycle, so keep dancing!