I don’t know who to talk to about my period. I try asking my mom for stuff but she keeps saying I don’t need it when I think I do

Okay, so it sounds like you're feeling a little stuck about talking to your mom and getting what you need. That totally happens sometimes. It's really common to feel like you need more info or products than your grown-ups think you do, especially when your body is changing so fast.

Finding someone to talk to

It's super important to have someone you trust to talk to about all this stuff. If your mom isn't quite getting it right now, think about other grown-ups who you feel safe with. Maybe an aunt, an older cousin, a grandmother, a school counselor, or even a friend's mom. Sometimes talking to someone else first can help you figure out exactly what you want to say to your mom, or they might even be able to help you talk to her.

Getting what you need

When you're trying to explain to your mom what you need, it can help to be really specific. Instead of just saying "stuff," maybe try saying something like:

• "I need some pads because I don't want to get surprised at school."
• "I'm really worried about my period starting and I want to have some period underwear ready just in case."
• "Can we get some ibuprofen for cramps? My friends say it helps a lot."

Sometimes grown-ups think they're protecting you by saying you don't need things yet, or they just don't realize how quickly things can change. Being clear about why you want something can make a big difference. Remember, you're becoming a period pro, and you know your body best, even if it's new! You can also check out the Soso blog for more info and tips on what to do when your period starts.