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I don’t have my period yet but I have almost all the signs. I have a very mature looking body. It also feels weird because I’ve seen so many people my age that look like they have their period and I feel like I’m just kind of behind you know

Soso answered

It's totally normal to feel like your body is doing its own thing, even if you have a lot of the signs of puberty. Everyone's body is on its own schedule for getting a period.

Okay so your body can go through a bunch of changes that make it look more mature, like breast development and even getting discharge, for a while before your actual first period. It's like your body is getting everything ready behind the scenes, and the period is the grand finale. Most people get their first period between ages 10 and 15, but it can totally happen a little earlier or later and still be super normal. There's really no 'behind' or 'ahead' when it comes to puberty, just 'your unique timing'.

If you're curious about roughly when your first period might arrive based on the signs you're already seeing, there's a quiz that can help you figure it out: how close is my first period?

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A asked

I get really bad back pain. Have a lot of discharge and pubic hair. My breasts are pretty developed but not fully and I’m 12. I get moody and bloated a lot too. The app said I’ll get it by may does this make sense based on what I told you

Soso answered

Yes, based on what you're describing, it makes total sense that your first period could be coming around May. All those signs you mentioned are super common things that happen before your period starts. Okay so, let's break it down: What…

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A asked

Some of my friends with their period got their breasts after they got their period. I also noticed that none of my friends get pimples as much as I do and I don’t have my period yet. Also, some of my friends with their period look like me development-wise, so it’s confusing why I don’t have it.

Soso answered

Puberty does not happen in the exact same order or on the same schedule for anyone, so looking similar on the outside does not mean your period will arrive on the same day as your friends. Your body runs on its own internal clock. Even if…

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Laura asked

Ask all possible questions to try to calculate my first (or second because of the little dots on the towel that we don't know if it was menarche or not) period to try to calculate the day of menstruation.

Soso answered

For us to try to guess when your period will arrive, I need a bit more info! Tell me about these "little dots on the towel" and if you've noticed other signs in your body that indicate puberty is happening. Like, have you noticed if your…

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