Pads are so uncomfy I can feel it only around my butt and I’m, so scared I’m gonna leak this is the first day of my first period

Pads can totally feel weird at first, especially when you're just getting used to them, and it's super normal to be a little worried about leaking on your first period. You're not alone! A lot of us start out feeling kinda nervous about this. It gets way easier, I promise.

Okay so if the pad feels like it's mostly around your butt, it might not be placed quite right. You want the pad to sit right under your vagina, so it can catch everything as it comes out. Sometimes people put it a little too far back, or too far forward, and then it doesn't feel comfortable or cover the right spot. Check where it is next time you change it, and try to center it a bit better. You can also try different sizes or shapes of pads. Sometimes a longer pad, or one made for overnight, can feel more secure and cover more without feeling bulky.

It can take a little while to figure out what works best for you and your flow. Just keep an eye on it and try to change your pad every few hours, even if it doesn't feel super full. That'll help with the leak scary. There are also period underwear, which are literally pants that have a built-in pad, and they are kind of amazing because they feel really secure. If you're stressed about leaks, they can be a good backup for overnight or just for extra peace of mind.