But tell me, the month I might menstruate, just so I have an idea. I'm 12 years old and from [redacted]

Oh, friend, Sosô can't guess the exact month your first period will arrive because every body is different and we don't have an expiration date, you know? But I can give you an idea of what usually happens!

Normally, girls have their first period between 10 and 13 years old. Sometimes it's a bit earlier, like 8 or 9, and sometimes a bit later, up to around 15. But there's no way to know the exact month, I swear. We have to pay attention to our body's signals.

Signs that your period is coming

• Breast growth: If your breasts have already started to develop, that's a strong sign. Your period usually comes about 2 to 3 years after your breasts start growing.
• Pubic hair: You'll notice hair in your armpits and pubic area.
• Vaginal discharge: It's like a clear or whitish liquid that appears in your underwear. It usually starts about 6 to 12 months before your first period. It's super normal and means your body is getting ready.
• Growth spurt: You know that time when you grow a lot in a short period? Many girls have their first period after their growth slows down, like when you've already grown a lot and aren't stretching so fast anymore.

Keep an eye on these signs, as they are the best indicators! And if you want to get an idea of how close it is, there's a super cool quiz here on the site: how close is my first period?